Perspectives Party
Welcome
What would it be like to have a council of your trusted friends positively gossip about you, discuss solutions to your problems and encourage you really hard? No BS, coach-guided and stewarded by intelligent friends and peers who want the best for you.
This is Perspectives Parties.
I’m Sarah, Executive and Life Coach, founder of SF Creative & Coaching and the host of today’s Perspectives Party. I’m a trained System’s Coach, Certified Psychometrics practitioner, and hold a BSc Hons in Human Psychology and Human Biology. My approach to coaching and life is to be firmly rooted in three areas - Science; AKA Consensus Reality, Psychology; AKA the Dreaming and Spirit; AKA the Essence. Science humbles, Psychology stimulates and Spirit surrounds.
Welcome to SFC
Over the years I have taken many people through both En Passant feedback and Critical Incidents activities both in the corporate and personal contexts.
More recently, at the request of a professional mastermind group known as ‘Dreamweavers’ I stewarded, we adjusted the name from Critical Incidents to ‘Perspectives Party’. This is an original SFC creation.
At some point recently, after throwing a perspectives party for a client transitioning their career, I wondered what it might be like to put together wildly positive En Passant feedback, a technique where people positively gossip about you while you sit turn away and listen, with a Perspectives party back-to back. So I tried it on myself and this is the 2-hour session that emerged - the Perspectives Party!
What investment includes:
1 coaching session before
2 hours loveathon and Perspectives Party - arranged by SFC
Recording of the Party
Sarah sends 7 questions to participants that they send back and get collated and given back to you - written positive responses in addition to the recording
1 coaching session after to look forward and keep the softness and get strategies for integrating the new knowledge OR plan
Above ¥120,000 (tax 10% added at invoice)
Time, date & Logistics
Work with client to find ideal time (Generally run 7pm JST, timeline below is based on 7pm start)
*Please note by agreeing to attend you are agreeing to be recorded. The recording is shared only with the Perspectives Party recipient. It will not be distributed or shared. We also agree to the confidentiality of everything disclosed during the session. It is a secret society of Lovefest attendees.
We will set everything up for you and communicate with your invitees.
En Passant Feedback
Perspectives Party
En passant Feedback
Is a mode of feedback where the recipient is essentially ‘positively gossiped’ about as they sit in a room, but outside the circle of people, with their backs to them.
Recipient
You agree to trust and believe.
Why?
It is interesting to see how it helps people’s decision making and ability to dream up, have confidence, move forward and gain momentum if they have been showered with positive information about themselves.
And opens them up for the Perspectives Party.
Agreements
Focus on positive and useful observations about the recipient.
Mode
The recipient starts by inviting the feedback and thanking the group
Then move onto the Perspectives Party
6:55 Room opens
7:00 Welcome and brief intros - why we are here? Sarah
7:10 Align
7:15 - En Passant Feedback
Participants start to talk about Recipient
7:40 - Recipient returns - Sarah facilitates.
7:48 - Rest, breathe, quiet, land, transition, comfort break
7:50 - Begin the Perspectives Party
Recipient takes notes while removed from the group
8:25 - wind up and return. .
8:30 - Recipient talks.
8:40 - together - clarification and questions
8:50 - What happens next? Closing words and takeaways from recipient.
“What potent magic will emerge?”
A little bit of coaching theory that’s included:
Johari Window
5 Levels of listening
